How to Feel Your Feelings / episode 55 show notes



How to feel your feelings


Being shutdown/disconnected makes it hard

  • Feelings are not there, body is in conservation mode


Being in flight/fight makes it difficult to be present enough to pause and feel

  • we want to escape feelings, they feel dangerous


Come to the present moment externally first, then inward

  • Feel objectively physical sensations before emotional


Then notice the emotion


Then how does it feel to feel that way?

  • the emotion/feeling of the emotion/feeling


Look inward, focus your attention on the inner experience, listen to what your body has to say w/o interpretation or judgment

  • Check with your chest or your gut or your face


Start broad, then narrow

  • Is it a good feeling or a bad feeling?

  • Okay, how good or bad? 0-10?

  • Is it more heavy or light?

  • Does it have a name? A texture?




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